Independent

Ok I'm not slamming the term but I'm wondering what do people mean when they say "I'm an independent woman."

I'm not against the saying per se, however, I notice a lot of women throw that around. And I looked up independent in the dictionary and it actually has several meanings.

So my questions are:

1. What is an independent woman in your definition? (don't look up the definition to copy paste nothing either and please don't look it up to get ideas)
2. Would you like to be with an independent man or a man that tells you he's independent?
3. Should you still be considered independent if you are married?
4. And is this a turn off or turn on for men? (I'd better not be seeing women answering this either LOL)

You can comment here or email me directly (LaToya_Murry@hotmail.com), but I'm curious. Feel free to send this link to as many people as you want to weigh in. I'll post my opinion next time along with your thoughts (what men say vs what the women say). Oh and everyone will remain anonymous.